You're not imagining it. And you're not broken.
For many high-achieving women, these feelings trace back to childhood -
to homes where love felt conditional,
where emotions weren't safe,
where you learned to be small to survive.
The good news? Those patterns can change. Faster than you think.
You're in the right place.
Growing up with a narcissistic or emotionally unsafe adult often meant learning to stay small, stay alert, and put everyone else first.
Not because something was wrong with you.
Because it kept you safe.
But those same patterns don't disappear just because you grew up. They show up as self-doubt, people-pleasing, emotional exhaustion, and a quiet sense of disconnection from who you really are.
You've done the surviving.
This is where the reclaiming begins.
Reclaim works at the subconscious level, which means we go beneath the surface without requiring you to relive the past or tell your story over and over again.
Using a powerful blend of RTT (Rapid Transformational Therapy), CBT, NLP, and hypnotherapy (which is simply a deep relaxation of your nervous system, not control) we work together to help you understand why you respond the way you do, and build new responses that actually serve you.
This is a space where:
Your pace is respected. You are never pushed to share more than you’re ready for. You receive my full, undivided attention. And healing happens quietly, safely, and deeply
Understand your survival patterns with compassion instead of judgment.Release guilt, people-pleasing, and emotional over-responsibilityReconnect with your intuition and your own inner authority.Respond to life from clarity instead of old reflexes that no longer serve you.
Every session is tailored specifically to you: your history, your nervous system, and your goals.
You grew up with narcissistic or emotionally immature parent. You're high functioning on the outside, but quietly exhausted on the inside. You understand your past, and you're ready for real, embodied change. You want private, personalized support rather than a group setting.
Reclaim is designed for deep, steady healing, not crisis intervention. If you're in crisis, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional or crisis support line.
or schedule a free 30-minute discovery call below.
There's no pressure and no obligation, just a conversation.
Deb, your therapist and guide
Advanced RTT training with Marisa Peer, founder of RTT. October 2025
I’m Deb — a Certified RTT Therapist, RTC Coach, and former educator and rehabilitation counselor.
But more than my credentials, what I bring to this work is lived experience.
I know what it feels like to grow up in a home where love felt conditional and emotions weren't safe. I know what it's like to spend years being strong for everyone else while quietly wondering when it would finally feel like enough.
That's not just my backstory. It's the reason this work found me - and why I do it the way I do.
My approach is warm, unhurried, and deeply personal. You'll never feel like a case study here. You'll feel like someone who finally has a safe place to land.
If something on this page resonated with you, trust that feeling. Reach out and let's have a conversation. No pressure. No obligation. Just two people seeing if this is the right fit.
From a client:
"I have been on a healing journey for several years. I knew that I had much deep work that still needed to be done so that I could finally feel free! I have used many healing modalities and participated in several coaching programs but needed something more. If you are ready to do the work and get rapid results, Deb has a set of tools that are nothing short of miraculous.
Aside from Deb's experience and training, her kind and thoughtful demeanor create the safe space that is needed for this type of coaching. I felt comfortable and relaxed enough to allow her to guide me through different exercises even though I knew sensitive topics and strong feelings may emerge. I will definitely continue to trust Deb as a continued resource for healing and growth."
Lesley